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Weddings • Anonymous

"Hey girl, the bride said guests can wear any color. Is a white dress ever okay?"

Top reply
Girl, no. Any color means any color except white. Pick a soft blush and keep the peace.
Friendship • Anonymous

"Hey girl, my friends planned a girls' trip and I can't afford it. How do I say no without being left out?"

Top reply
Be honest and suggest a brunch when they're back. Real friends will get it, and the ones who don't are telling you something.
Dating • Anonymous

"Hey girl, he takes a full day to text back but says he really likes me. Am I overthinking?"

Top reply
Watch what he does, not what he says. Someone who's excited about you finds the time.
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